The majority of my blog sites on the years have already been written for folks who are generally intimately active and possess experience with pivi (penis-in-vagina sexual intercourse). I’m going to address young (and perhaps not-so-young) women who are interested in losing their virginity today. (i am hoping dudes will look at this as well—virgins or perhaps not.)
Losing your virginity is certainly not an interest that many of us bandy around in casual conversation. But I’ve been privileged throughout the years to know a large number of information, many of them about experiences that have been embarrassing, clumsy, and quite often painful. It does not should be like that.
We heartily advise that very first intimate partner be a person who is gentle and type, with a decent spontaneity. And please, please, please don’t be drunk or high very first time. Go on it from me personally: partners that do it sober have happier and safer experience! Continue reading